We hear it all the
time - parents are their children's first and most important teachers. That role
seems more clear cut when they are very young and need help with just about
everything - from practicing how to tie their shoes to looking both ways before
crossing a street. But once a child enters school, other adults assume the
teacher role, leaving many parents wondering what they can do to support and
encourage learning... in school and out.
One thing is
certain: for children to learn their lessons well and remain curious about the
many new and interesting parts of their world, they still need their parents'
help and daily encouragement. Research repeatedly shows that children are
better, more successful learners when their parents are actively involved in
their learning, both at home and at school.
(See sidebar:
Parent Involvement Pays Off)
Before you rush to
the store for a pack of flash cards consider this: When it comes to helping
children grow as learners, many of the things that parents do each day are what
really matter most. For example:
Create a home where
learning is encouraged.
This includes
setting aside a consistent time each day when children will complete their
homework. It also means encouraging children to read and write for pleasure and
setting limits on television, computer and video game usage. (FYI: The American
Academy of Pediatrics recommends that school-age children spend no more than one
to two hours a day watching TV and playing computer games - and that children
not watch TV while doing homework).
Set high expectations for
learning.
Parents know
better than anyone else what their children are interested in and what their
talents are. Take the time to encourage your children's strengths and find ways
to support them when they struggle. This sends the message that you are ready to
help them succeed. For example, offer to help younger children sound out words
as they read to you. Play math games as you drive in the car. Meet with the
teacher to discuss how you can work together to help your child master a
difficult subject.
Encourage exploration and
discovery.
Just because the
school day is over doesn't mean that learning has to end. If your child is
learning about different types of communities, a family trip to a local farm can
provide an interesting lesson on rural community life. Try turning an interest
in cooking into an international theme dinner. If you have a skateboarding
enthusiast in your family, subscribe to a magazine on his/her favorite topic.
The point is to make learning fun. Libraries, museums, local historical sites
and the Internet are all wonderful resources to help you nurture your child's
interests while spending quality time together. Two kid-friendly search engines
to try are Yahooligans (www.yahooligans.com) and Ask Jeeves for Kids (www.ajkids.com).
Build a strong home-school
partnership.
Open house at the
beginning of the year is a great time to get to know your children's teachers
and learn about ways you can support the year's learning at home. Parent-teacher
conferences are a good time to talk about the areas where your child may need
extra help or ways you can expand upon classroom lessons. Volunteering in the
classroom, attending school events and sending notes or e-mail messages are
great ways to keep in touch with teachers throughout the year and stay informed
about what your children are learning.